Align protobuf package version and proto options with kvproto

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What problem does this PR solve?

Align protobuf package version proto options with kvproto.

Tests:

# pwd: tipb
cd ../tidb
git diff 
diff --git a/go.mod b/go.mod
index 4473dadedd..2f61627095 100644
--- a/go.mod
+++ b/go.mod
@@ -326,4 +326,6 @@ replace (
        // Please remove these dependencies.
        sourcegraph.com/sourcegraph/appdash => github.com/sourcegraph/appdash v0.0.0-20190731080439-ebfcffb1b5c0
        sourcegraph.com/sourcegraph/appdash-data => github.com/sourcegraph/appdash-data v0.0.0-20151005221446-73f23eafcf67
+
+       github.com/pingcap/tipb => ../tipb
 )
make
CGO_ENABLED=1  GO111MODULE=on go build -tags codes  -ldflags '-X "github.com/pingcap/tidb/pkg/parser/mysql.TiDBReleaseVersion=v8.5.0-alpha-26-g6679c7449d-dirty" -X "github.com/pingcap/tidb/pkg/util/versioninfo.TiDBBuildTS=2024-11-01 05:41:27" -X "github.com/pingcap/tidb/pkg/util/versioninfo.TiDBGitHash=6679c7449d8edc45a635ce950f077d6ea8b58843" -X "github.com/pingcap/tidb/pkg/util/versioninfo.TiDBGitBranch=master" -X "github.com/pingcap/tidb/pkg/util/versioninfo.TiDBEdition=Community" ' -o bin/tidb-server ./cmd/tidb-server
Build TiDB Server successfully!

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rest lgtm

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/merge