fix: check if we have an internal ref to update

[joshuaellis]

resolves #1948

Why

• resolves [bug]: in v9.5.1 the first element in useTransition not expiring #1948

What

• check if we have an internal ref we should update

Checklist

• Documentation updated
• Demo added
• Ready to be merged

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thirsty-monad-2tpqbm	Issue #1948