Support abi3 wheels

abi3 is also known as the stable ABI https://docs.python.org/3/c-api/stable.html#stable-abi

abi3 wheels are forwards compatible, meaning an abi3-py39 wheel will
work with Python 3.9, 3.10, 3.11, 3.12, and so on.

pyodide_lock/utils.py

@@ -321,6 +321,9 @@ def _check_wheel_compatible(path: Path, info: InfoSpec) -> None:
         raise RuntimeError(f"Wheel filename {path.name} is not valid") from e
     python_binary_abi = f"cp{target_python.major}{target_python.minor}"
     tags = list(tags)
+    abi3_compat = {
+        f"cp{target_python.major}{minor}" for minor in range(2, target_python.minor)
+    }
 
     tag_match = False
     for t in tags:
@@ -331,6 +334,12 @@ def _check_wheel_compatible(path: Path, info: InfoSpec) -> None:
             and t.platform == target_platform
         ):
             tag_match = True
+        elif (
+            target_python.major == 3
+            and t.abi == "abi3"
+            and t.interpreter in abi3_compat
+        ):
+            tag_match = True
         elif t.abi == "none" and t.platform == "any":
             match = re.match(rf"py{target_python.major}(\d*)", t.interpreter)
             if match: