Configure conflicting ARM baremetal cmake flags

[jathu]

Summary

Similar to #11457, but now we also want to warn against unsupported/conflicting flags. For example, when using EXECUTORCH_BUILD_ARM_BAREMETAL, we cannot enable certain flags.

Test plan

CI

$ cmake -DEXECUTORCH_BUILD_ARM_BAREMETAL=ON --preset macos

CMake Error at tools/cmake/common/preset.cmake:142 (message):
  Both 'EXECUTORCH_BUILD_ARM_BAREMETAL' and
  'EXECUTORCH_BUILD_EXTENSION_DATA_LOADER' can't be ON
Call Stack (most recent call first):
  tools/cmake/preset/default.cmake:352 (check_conflicting_options_on)
  CMakeLists.txt:87 (include)

cc @larryliu0820 @digantdesai @freddan80 @per @zingo @oscarandersson8218

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[zingo]

Thanks, if this combination don't work we should try to fix it :)