Remove deprecated distutils usage for Python 3.12 #2124

Job	Run time
linux (linux.12xlarge, cpu) / linux-job	44s
linux (linux.g5.4xlarge.nvidia.gpu, cuda, 11.8) / linux-job	9m 11s
macos (macos-12) / macos-job	9m 5s
macos (macos-m1-stable) / macos-job	2m 16s
windows (windows.4xlarge, cpu) / windows-job	17m 16s
windows (windows.g5.4xlarge.nvidia.gpu, cuda, 11.8) / windows-job	11m 18s
	49m 50s

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