[data] data metrics grouping (#55495)

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## Why are these changes needed?
- ray data dashboard is ugly
- grouping them into pending inputs, inputs, outputs, overview, pending
outputs, scheduling loop, resource usage/budget, and iteration
- also changed the metric from external outqueue of op1 to external
inqueue of op2 (so that i can combine the internal + external inqueues
easily)
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Signed-off-by: iamjustinhsu <jhsu@anyscale.com>
Signed-off-by: Douglas Strodtman <douglas@anyscale.com>

Author: iamjustinhsu