feat: enforce chain parallelism and fill proper upstream with same vnode range

[yezizp2012]

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What's changed and what's your intention?

As title, follow up of #4710 . Two changes in this PR:

1. enforce chain parallelism same with its dependent mview.
2. fill chain actor's upstream with proper actor contains same vnode range, setup vnode bitmap and fragment vnode mapping info when create MoM, rather than when doing scheduling.

Checklist

• I have written necessary rustdoc comments
• I have added necessary unit tests and integration tests
• All checks passed in ./risedev check (or alias, ./risedev c)

Refer to a related PR or issue link (optional)

• Tracking: online scaling in compute node #3750

[codecov]

Codecov Report

Merging #4740 (74352d3) into main (0019e59) will decrease coverage by 0.10%.
The diff coverage is 54.25%.

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src/batch/src/executor/join/lookup_join.rs	56.06% <0.00%> (-0.70%)	⬇️
src/batch/src/task/task_execution.rs	58.46% <ø> (ø)
src/common/src/catalog/mod.rs	70.00% <0.00%> (-2.42%)	⬇️
src/common/src/config.rs	54.01% <ø> (ø)
src/common/src/error.rs	70.53% <ø> (ø)
src/compute/src/rpc/service/stream_service.rs	0.00% <0.00%> (ø)
src/compute/src/server.rs	0.00% <0.00%> (ø)
src/connector/src/source/pulsar/source/reader.rs	0.00% <0.00%> (ø)
src/meta/src/error.rs	26.92% <0.00%> (-3.52%)	⬇️
src/meta/src/manager/catalog/database.rs	34.07% <0.00%> (-0.59%)	⬇️
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[BugenZhao]

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