feature: calculate allocated memory (approx), OTEL support

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Reason for This PR

closes: roadrunner-server/roadrunner#1412

Description of Changes

• Support for the OTEL.
• Add approximate key-values allocated memory calculation.
• Removed the old periodic scan for the obsolete items. Now each item with a timeout has its own expiration callback.

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