Since compiling the bootstrap command doesn't require any submodules,
we can skip updating submodules when a --help command is passed in.
On my machine, this saves 1 minute if the submodules are already
downloaded, and 10 minutes if run on a clean repo.

This commit also adds a message before compiling/downloading anything
when a --help command is passed in, to tell the user WHY --help
takes so long to complete. It also points the user to the bootstrap
README.md for faster help.

Finally, this fixes one warning message that still referenced using
make instead of x.py, even though x.py is now the standard way of
building rust.

It was an existing solution to tell the user why a --help command
takes a long time to process. However, it would only print if the
stage0 rust compiler needed to be downloaded, it came after
update_submodules (which took a long time), and it was immediately
followed by download messages and loading bars, meaning users could
easily gloss over the message.

This commit also moves the help message out of main(), and instead
puts it at the top of bootstrap(). main() is intended to be minimal,
only handling error messages.