zfs send -p send properties only for snapshots that are actually sent

... as opposed to sending properties of all snapshots of the relevant
filesystem.  The previous behavior results in properties being set on
all snapshots on the receiving side, which is quite slow.

Behavior of zfs send -R is not changed.

References:
  http://thread.gmane.org/gmane.comp.file-systems.openzfs.devel/346

Ported-by: Richard Yao <ryao@gentoo.org>
Signed-off-by: Brian Behlendorf <behlendorf1@llnl.gov>
Issue openzfs#2729
Issue openzfs#2210

lib/libzfs/libzfs_sendrecv.c

@@ -561,6 +561,8 @@ typedef struct send_data {
 	const char *fromsnap;
 	const char *tosnap;
 	boolean_t recursive;
+	boolean_t seenfrom;
+	boolean_t seento;
 
 	/*
 	 * The header nvlist is of the following format:
@@ -595,20 +597,39 @@ send_iterate_snap(zfs_handle_t *zhp, void *arg)
 	uint64_t guid = zhp->zfs_dmustats.dds_guid;
 	char *snapname;
 	nvlist_t *nv;
+	boolean_t isfromsnap, istosnap;
 
 	snapname = strrchr(zhp->zfs_name, '@')+1;
+	isfromsnap = (sd->fromsnap != NULL &&
+	    strcmp(sd->fromsnap, snapname) == 0);
+	istosnap = (sd->tosnap != NULL && (strcmp(sd->tosnap, snapname) == 0));
 
-	VERIFY(0 == nvlist_add_uint64(sd->parent_snaps, snapname, guid));
 	/*
 	 * NB: if there is no fromsnap here (it's a newly created fs in
 	 * an incremental replication), we will substitute the tosnap.
 	 */
-	if ((sd->fromsnap && strcmp(snapname, sd->fromsnap) == 0) ||
-	    (sd->parent_fromsnap_guid == 0 && sd->tosnap &&
-	    strcmp(snapname, sd->tosnap) == 0)) {
+	if (isfromsnap || (sd->parent_fromsnap_guid == 0 && istosnap)) {
 		sd->parent_fromsnap_guid = guid;
 	}
 
+	if (!sd->recursive) {
+		if (!sd->seenfrom && isfromsnap) {
+			sd->seenfrom = B_TRUE;
+			zfs_close(zhp);
+			return (0);
+		}
+
+		if (sd->seento || !sd->seenfrom) {
+			zfs_close(zhp);
+			return (0);
+		}
+
+		if (istosnap)
+			sd->seento = B_TRUE;
+	}
+
+	VERIFY(0 == nvlist_add_uint64(sd->parent_snaps, snapname, guid));
+
 	VERIFY(0 == nvlist_alloc(&nv, NV_UNIQUE_NAME, 0));
 	send_iterate_prop(zhp, nv);
 	VERIFY(0 == nvlist_add_nvlist(sd->snapprops, snapname, nv));