doc: update module hooks docs

PR-URL: nodejs/node#49265
Backport-PR-URL: nodejs/node#50669
Reviewed-By: Jacob Smith <jacob@frende.me>
Reviewed-By: Antoine du Hamel <duhamelantoine1995@gmail.com>

graal-nodejs/doc/api/cli.md

@@ -28,8 +28,8 @@ absolute path, it's resolved as a relative path from the current working
 directory. That path is then resolved by [CommonJS][] module loader. If no
 corresponding file is found, an error is thrown.
 
-If a file is found, its path will be passed to the [ECMAScript module loader][]
-under any of the following conditions:
+If a file is found, its path will be passed to the
+[ES module loader][Modules loaders] under any of the following conditions:
 
 * The program was started with a command-line flag that forces the entry
   point to be loaded with ECMAScript module loader.
@@ -43,9 +43,9 @@ Otherwise, the file is loaded using the CommonJS module loader. See
 
 ### ECMAScript modules loader entry point caveat
 
-When loading [ECMAScript module loader][] loads the program entry point, the `node`
-command will only accept as input only files with `.js`, `.mjs`, or `.cjs`
-extensions; and with `.wasm` extensions when
+When loading, the [ES module loader][Modules loaders] loads the program
+entry point, the `node` command will accept as input only files with `.js`,
+`.mjs`, or `.cjs` extensions; and with `.wasm` extensions when
 [`--experimental-wasm-modules`][] is enabled.
 
 ## Options
@@ -396,7 +396,11 @@ changes:
                  `--experimental-loader`.
 -->
 
-Specify the `module` of a custom experimental [ECMAScript module loader][].
+> This flag is discouraged and may be removed in a future version of Node.js.
+> Please use
+> [`--import` with `register()`][module customization hooks: enabling] instead.
+
+Specify the `module` containing exported [module customization hooks][].
 `module` may be any string accepted as an [`import` specifier][].
 
 ### `--experimental-network-imports`
@@ -2369,8 +2373,9 @@ done
 [CommonJS module]: modules.md
 [CustomEvent Web API]: https://dom.spec.whatwg.org/#customevent
 [ECMAScript module]: esm.md#modules-ecmascript-modules
-[ECMAScript module loader]: esm.md#loaders
 [Fetch API]: https://developer.mozilla.org/en-US/docs/Web/API/Fetch_API
+[Module customization hooks]: module.md#customization-hooks
+[Module customization hooks: enabling]: module.md#enabling
 [Modules loaders]: packages.md#modules-loaders
 [Node.js issue tracker]: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues
 [OSSL_PROVIDER-legacy]: https://www.openssl.org/docs/man3.0/man7/OSSL_PROVIDER-legacy.html

graal-nodejs/doc/api/esm.md

@@ -1090,7 +1090,7 @@ success!
 [`package.json`]: packages.md#nodejs-packagejson-field-definitions
 [`process.dlopen`]: process.md#processdlopenmodule-filename-flags
 [cjs-module-lexer]: https://github.com/nodejs/cjs-module-lexer/tree/1.2.2
-[custom https loader]: module.md#https-loader
+[custom https loader]: module.md#import-from-https
 [import.meta.resolve]: #importmetaresolvespecifier
 [percent-encoded]: url.md#percent-encoding-in-urls
 [special scheme]: https://url.spec.whatwg.org/#special-scheme