fix broken MySQL 8.1.0 build on macos-14 (#1133)

* apply patch: Bug#35137978: Equality operator needs to be updated after LWG-3865

patches/mysql/8.1.0/equality-operator-needs-to-be-updated.patch

@@ -0,0 +1,42 @@
+commit d4ecf88abba64baa56c2528fd1aa294c6fdbad24
+Author: Georgi Kodinov <georgi.kodinov@oracle.com>
+Date:   Thu Jul 20 14:49:31 2023 +0200
+
+    Bug#35137978: Equality operator needs to be updated after LWG-3865
+
+    The C++ Standardization Committee's Library Working Group recently resolved
+    an issue, LWG-3865 "Sorting a range of pairs" (see
+    https://cplusplus.github.io/LWG/issue3865 ), which changes how std::pair's
+    comparison operators are defined. Such issues are considered "defect reports"
+    and apply retroactively to all published Standards.
+
+    Based on a suggestion by the Microsoft Visual Studio team.
+
+    Change-Id: I8ac997fecfab9b53b4c3bdebd9ab995316aab6b7
+
+diff --git a/sql/auth/auth_internal.h b/sql/auth/auth_internal.h
+index 2b1cf5324b4..324d0332d57 100644
+--- a/sql/auth/auth_internal.h
++++ b/sql/auth/auth_internal.h
+@@ -255,7 +255,7 @@ void revoke_dynamic_privileges_from_auth_id(
+     const Role_id &id, const std::vector<std::string> &priv_list);
+ bool operator==(const Role_id &a, const Auth_id_ref &b);
+ bool operator==(const Auth_id_ref &a, const Role_id &b);
+-bool operator==(const std::pair<const Role_id, const Role_id> &a,
++bool operator==(const std::pair<const Role_id, Role_id> &a,
+                 const Auth_id_ref &b);
+ bool operator==(const Role_id &a, const Role_id &b);
+ bool operator==(std::pair<const Role_id, std::pair<std::string, bool>> &a,
+diff --git a/sql/auth/sql_authorization.cc b/sql/auth/sql_authorization.cc
+index 96371df9b59..71d952303ce 100644
+--- a/sql/auth/sql_authorization.cc
++++ b/sql/auth/sql_authorization.cc
+@@ -7437,7 +7437,7 @@ bool operator==(const Role_id &a, const Auth_id_ref &b) {
+
+ bool operator==(const Auth_id_ref &a, const Role_id &b) { return b == a; }
+
+-bool operator==(const std::pair<const Role_id, const Role_id> &a,
++bool operator==(const std::pair<const Role_id, Role_id> &a,
+                 const Auth_id_ref &b) {
+   return ((a.second.user().length() == b.first.length) &&
+           (a.second.host().length() == b.second.length) &&