Improve annotation processing thread-safety

[cbeams]

Commit http://bit.ly/nXumTs ensured that component methods and fields
marked with 'common annotations' such as @resource, @PostConstruct and
@PreDestroy are invoked/assigned once and only once, even if multiple
instances of the CommonAnnotationBeanPostProcessor are processing the
same bean factory.

The implementation works against the InjectionMetadata API, adding and
removing these members from sets that track whether they are already
'externally managed', i.e. that another CABPP has already handled them,
thus avoiding redundant processing.

Prior to this change, the #remove operations against these sets were
not synchronized. In a single-threaded context this is fine thanks to
logic in AbstractAutowireCapableBeanFactory#doCreateBean that checks to
see whether a given bean definition has already been post processed.
However, as reported by SPR-8598, certain cases involving multiple
threads and annotated prototype-scoped beans can cause concurrent
modification exceptions during the #remove operation (ostensibly because
another thread is attempting to do the same removal at the same time,
though this has yet to be reproduced in isolation).

Now the sets originally introduced by the commit above are decorated
with Collections#synchronizedSet and any iterations over those sets
are synchronized properly. This change should have low performance
impact as such processing happens at container startup time (save for
non-singleton lookups at runtime), and there should be little
contention in any case.

Issue: SPR-8598

[cbeams]

Rebased these changes into subversion trunk after review with Juergen.