Handle the EOF/Context canceled error caused by TSO Follower Proxy disabling

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Feature Request

Describe your feature request related problem

Now we can enable/disable TSO Follower Proxy online, however, when we change it from on to off, there are two corner cases that will occur.

EOF/Context canceled Error

c.tryConnectWithProxy will rebuild the connectionCtxs and cancel the old stream, if we have an ongoing TSO gRPC request, this will cause an EOF/Context canceled error.

Old closed stream chosen

Because we will randomly choose a stream and wait for the incoming TSO request from a channel, so if any connectionCtxs rebuilding happens after the stream choosing, it will make the TSO requests in the future fail due to the chosen stream being closed.

These two cases won't affect the TiDB now because it has the TSO backoff strategy. However, I think it's still worth being fixed.

Describe the feature you'd like

Enabling/Disabling the TSO Follower Proxy online won't affect the TSO request at all. Everything will run smoothly with no error occurring.