🔨 cleanup of progress bar and tree

[maartenbreddels]

We now also report if it comes from cache or when an error occured.

Also moved out of utils.py to progress.py

[maartenbreddels]

should be more stable now with rich, and we now also see with [1] and [2] which pass over the data it did for which task, here it takes.3 passes.

[maartenbreddels]

Also, using the context manager, everything will be added to the progress tree:

We also/still support via progress=True/'rich'

[maartenbreddels]

note that in this last example, we didn't use delay=True, causing it to do 4 passes, instead of 2. @JovanVeljanoski I think this can be a good addition to the docs, explaining how vaex works.