chore: update deps

[antfu]

Description

Divide #3791 into setps

Confirmed Upgrading Blocker

• postcss-load-config >=3.0.1
• rollup (need investigate)
• @vue/compiler-sfc 3.1.x (for plugin-vue)

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What is the purpose of this pull request?

• Bug fix
• New Feature
• Documentation update
• Other

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