Fix misleading error mapping for row limit error

[GuptaManan100]

Description

This PR fixes a misleading error mapping for row limit error.

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Deployment Notes

[aquarapid]

For release notes:

Potential breaking change, depending on application introspection of returned error messages:

 * In previous Vitess versions, if the vttablet row limit (-queryserver-config-max-result-size) was exceeded, an error like:
 ERROR 10001 (HY000): target: unsharded.0.master: vttablet: rpc error: code = ResourceExhausted desc = Row count exceeded 10000 (errno 10001) (sqlstate HY000) ...
   would be reported to the client.  To avoid confusion, the error mapping has been changed to report the error as similar to:
 ERROR 10001 (HY000): target: unsharded.0.primary: vttablet: rpc error: code = Aborted desc = Row count exceeded 10000 (errno 10001) (sqlstate HY000) ...
   instead
   
 * Because of this error code change, the vttablet metric:
  vttablet_errors{error_code="ABORTED"}
 will be incremented upon this type of error, instead of the previous metric:
  vttablet_errors{error_code="RESOURCE_EXHAUSTED"}

 * In addition (non-breaking change), the vttablet error message logged is now different. 
 Previously, a (misleading;  due to the PoolFull) error was logged:
   E0112 09:48:25.420641  278125 tabletserver.go:1368] PoolFull: Row count exceeded 10000 (errno 10001) (sqlstate HY000) ...
 Post-change, a more accurate warning is logged instead:
   W0112 09:38:59.169264   35943 tabletserver.go:1503] Row count exceeded 10000 (errno 10001) (sqlstate HY000) ...

[deepthi]

Thanks @aquarapid!
@GuptaManan100 can you add this to the release notes?

[GuptaManan100]

Okay I'll take care of it