[Bugfix] Follow vLLM Qwen-Moe/VL and KV Connector change to fix broken CI

[Potabk]

What this PR does / why we need it?

This pr fix broken CI:

1. Fix the vllm-project/vllm@ee2eb6e changes, in this commit, they fused the gate and up projections in the vision MLP, This can improve performance by reducing one matrix multiplication. so, this pr do the following things:
   • Specify that the two linear layers are fused as mlp.gate_up_proj when loading the weights.
   • Use a SiluAndMul activation function.
2. Fix vllm-project/vllm@aefeea0, Update ModelRunnerOutput parameters to adapt to its changes
3. Fix vllm-commit, fix qwen moe

Does this PR introduce any user-facing change?

How was this patch tested?

• vLLM version: v0.10.0
• vLLM main: vllm-project/vllm@fed5849

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Codecov Report

❌ Patch coverage is 70.73171% with 12 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.
✅ Project coverage is 76.21%. Comparing base (ddaded1) to head (1921229).
⚠️ Report is 620 commits behind head on main.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
vllm_ascend/models/qwen2_5_vl.py	55.55%	4 Missing ⚠️
...ts/ut/kv_connector/test_remote_decode_lifecycle.py	77.77%	2 Missing ⚠️
...s/ut/kv_connector/test_remote_prefill_lifecycle.py	80.00%	2 Missing ⚠️
vllm_ascend/models/qwen3_moe.py	0.00%	2 Missing ⚠️
tests/ut/kv_connector/utils.py	83.33%	1 Missing ⚠️
vllm_ascend/models/qwen2_5_vl_without_padding.py	80.00%	1 Missing ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

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