skip incompatible services on ARM64 yarn services

Some libraries relying on native modules will not compile on ARM64:

* couchbase is missing an ARM64 `config` directory [1]
* oracledb still does not support it because first party client libraries
  are not available [2]
* grpc is EoL and does not support ARM64 [3]

We skip these services such that `yarn services` still succeeds and
installs all other dependencies.

[1] couchbase/couchnode#106
[2] oracle/node-oracledb#1349
[3] grpc/grpc-node#1880 (comment)

scripts/install_plugin_modules.js

@@ -1,6 +1,7 @@
 'use strict'
 
 const fs = require('fs')
+const os = require('node:os')
 const path = require('path')
 const crypto = require('crypto')
 const semver = require('semver')
@@ -11,6 +12,7 @@ const externals = require('../packages/dd-trace/test/plugins/externals')
 
 const requirePackageJsonPath = require.resolve('../packages/dd-trace/src/require-package-json')
 
+const excludeList = os.arch() === 'arm64' ? ['couchbase', 'grpc', 'oracledb'] : []
 const workspaces = new Set()
 const versionLists = {}
 const deps = {}
@@ -42,6 +44,8 @@ async function run () {
   assertFolder()
   await assertVersions()
   assertWorkspace()
+  // Some native addon packages rely on libraries that are not supported on ARM64
+  excludeList.forEach(pkg => delete workspaces[pkg])
   install()
 }
 
@@ -197,7 +201,7 @@ function install () {
 
 function addFolder (name, version) {
   const basename = [name, version].filter(val => val).join('@')
-  workspaces.add(basename)
+  if (!excludeList.includes(name)) workspaces.add(basename)
 }
 
 function folder (name, version) {