Update cxxopts to v3.3.1

.pre-commit-config.yaml

@@ -63,6 +63,10 @@ repos:
               [.](cmake|cpp|cu|cuh|h|hpp|sh|pxd|py|pyx)$|
               CMakeLists[.]txt$|
               meta[.]yaml$
+        exclude: |
+          (?x)^(
+            ^cpp/tests/utilities/cxxopts.hpp
+          )
   - repo: https://github.com/pre-commit/mirrors-clang-format
     rev: v20.1.4
     hooks:

cpp/tests/utilities/base_fixture.hpp

@@ -104,7 +104,7 @@ inline auto parse_test_options(int argc, char** argv)
       "rmm_mode", "RMM allocation mode", cxxopts::value<std::string>()->default_value("pool"));
 
     return options.parse(argc, argv);
-  } catch (const cxxopts::OptionException& e) {
+  } catch (const std::exception& e) {
     cuopt_assert(false, "Error parsing command line options");
   }