branch-3.0: [fix](nereids) fix convert to date literal throw exception #48980#48773

dataroaring merged 16 commits intoapache:branch-3.0apache/doris:branch-3.0from

yujun777:branch-3.0-fix-cast-datetime-exceptionyujun777/doris:branch-3.0-fix-cast-datetime-exceptionCopy head branch name to clipboard