[chore](tablet) ignore_load_tablet_failure default to be true

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run buildall

[doris-robot]

TPC-H: Total hot run time: 33913 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpch-tools
Tpch sf100 test result on commit 8b162c48912ca35cb06f28e670bb517d00e3b2e2, data reload: false

------ Round 1 ----------------------------------
q1	17588	5267	5130	5130
q2	1920	284	177	177
q3	10319	1292	715	715
q4	10219	1030	523	523
q5	7549	2408	2334	2334
q6	179	158	131	131
q7	884	751	631	631
q8	9288	1314	1138	1138
q9	6944	5118	5110	5110
q10	6904	2387	1954	1954
q11	463	287	266	266
q12	338	340	215	215
q13	17773	3632	3019	3019
q14	235	237	221	221
q15	547	465	490	465
q16	445	428	377	377
q17	573	844	378	378
q18	7501	7065	7073	7065
q19	1245	944	551	551
q20	350	342	217	217
q21	3894	2607	2324	2324
q22	1091	1031	972	972
Total cold run time: 106249 ms
Total hot run time: 33913 ms

----- Round 2, with runtime_filter_mode=off -----
q1	5141	5130	5127	5127
q2	240	326	221	221
q3	2139	2677	2331	2331
q4	1357	1785	1346	1346
q5	4233	4465	4499	4465
q6	220	173	131	131
q7	2024	1974	1833	1833
q8	2616	2607	2567	2567
q9	7345	7172	7196	7172
q10	3065	3270	2890	2890
q11	613	526	488	488
q12	749	763	695	695
q13	3507	3930	3303	3303
q14	300	320	279	279
q15	520	467	476	467
q16	460	495	464	464
q17	1204	1559	1380	1380
q18	8093	7696	7615	7615
q19	857	776	834	776
q20	2063	2007	1892	1892
q21	4944	4431	4276	4276
q22	1092	1002	1010	1002
Total cold run time: 52782 ms
Total hot run time: 50720 ms

[doris-robot]

TPC-DS: Total hot run time: 184626 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpcds-tools
TPC-DS sf100 test result on commit 8b162c48912ca35cb06f28e670bb517d00e3b2e2, data reload: false

query1	978	421	437	421
query2	6525	1726	1739	1726
query3	6737	221	216	216
query4	26214	23793	23324	23324
query5	4370	641	493	493
query6	319	213	214	213
query7	4622	502	282	282
query8	274	231	227	227
query9	8622	2874	2840	2840
query10	492	305	291	291
query11	15832	14881	14755	14755
query12	181	115	108	108
query13	1666	565	433	433
query14	9735	5708	5612	5612
query15	218	184	169	169
query16	7651	661	485	485
query17	1334	753	593	593
query18	2048	421	323	323
query19	191	187	158	158
query20	128	125	120	120
query21	220	126	109	109
query22	4286	4250	4259	4250
query23	34085	33164	32718	32718
query24	8078	2313	2348	2313
query25	533	464	427	427
query26	1228	267	161	161
query27	2712	505	339	339
query28	4450	2246	2237	2237
query29	747	557	443	443
query30	291	221	188	188
query31	910	781	711	711
query32	83	71	80	71
query33	581	369	343	343
query34	805	840	504	504
query35	809	810	734	734
query36	954	1037	883	883
query37	125	115	84	84
query38	4034	4009	3875	3875
query39	1476	1414	1426	1414
query40	211	121	118	118
query41	59	56	53	53
query42	119	107	109	107
query43	536	509	465	465
query44	1330	833	848	833
query45	195	170	159	159
query46	851	1004	624	624
query47	1796	1841	1735	1735
query48	380	410	310	310
query49	719	486	378	378
query50	649	692	404	404
query51	4231	4269	4231	4231
query52	116	110	100	100
query53	232	260	193	193
query54	619	600	518	518
query55	89	88	86	86
query56	326	313	295	295
query57	1206	1201	1131	1131
query58	273	264	264	264
query59	2713	2779	2599	2599
query60	338	342	321	321
query61	127	130	134	130
query62	831	764	677	677
query63	229	196	185	185
query64	4276	1038	723	723
query65	4230	4183	4223	4183
query66	1074	415	318	318
query67	15914	15218	15154	15154
query68	8713	925	569	569
query69	461	316	274	274
query70	1275	1171	1158	1158
query71	476	326	307	307
query72	5283	4792	4862	4792
query73	739	624	347	347
query74	9283	8914	8935	8914
query75	3895	3087	2648	2648
query76	3719	1137	734	734
query77	798	383	321	321
query78	9602	9833	8808	8808
query79	2082	814	573	573
query80	647	540	472	472
query81	469	255	213	213
query82	423	137	107	107
query83	281	249	242	242
query84	296	101	85	85
query85	798	373	341	341
query86	337	313	297	297
query87	4243	4220	4076	4076
query88	2791	2176	2167	2167
query89	378	318	287	287
query90	1935	222	213	213
query91	140	147	114	114
query92	83	69	69	69
query93	1124	1002	637	637
query94	681	386	309	309
query95	404	316	309	309
query96	494	586	279	279
query97	2667	2679	2585	2585
query98	237	224	217	217
query99	1447	1429	1275	1275
Total cold run time: 274414 ms
Total hot run time: 184626 ms

[doris-robot]

ClickBench: Total hot run time: 33.06 s

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/clickbench-tools
ClickBench test result on commit 8b162c48912ca35cb06f28e670bb517d00e3b2e2, data reload: false

query1	0.04	0.03	0.03
query2	0.08	0.04	0.04
query3	0.24	0.08	0.08
query4	1.63	0.11	0.12
query5	0.43	0.42	0.41
query6	1.17	0.66	0.66
query7	0.03	0.02	0.02
query8	0.05	0.04	0.04
query9	0.60	0.52	0.52
query10	0.59	0.57	0.57
query11	0.15	0.10	0.11
query12	0.14	0.12	0.11
query13	0.62	0.61	0.61
query14	0.79	0.85	0.84
query15	0.87	0.86	0.86
query16	0.38	0.40	0.39
query17	1.07	1.03	1.04
query18	0.21	0.20	0.19
query19	1.89	1.82	1.83
query20	0.01	0.01	0.01
query21	15.39	0.96	0.57
query22	0.80	1.17	0.69
query23	14.89	1.39	0.61
query24	7.08	1.34	1.21
query25	0.55	0.26	0.15
query26	0.57	0.16	0.13
query27	0.06	0.06	0.05
query28	9.97	0.90	0.43
query29	12.59	3.93	3.27
query30	3.11	3.03	3.01
query31	2.82	0.57	0.37
query32	3.23	0.54	0.48
query33	3.11	3.11	3.17
query34	16.03	5.45	4.82
query35	4.95	4.88	4.98
query36	0.69	0.53	0.48
query37	0.09	0.07	0.07
query38	0.05	0.05	0.04
query39	0.03	0.03	0.03
query40	0.19	0.15	0.15
query41	0.08	0.02	0.02
query42	0.04	0.02	0.03
query43	0.03	0.03	0.03
Total cold run time: 107.34 s
Total hot run time: 33.06 s

[doris-robot]

BE UT Coverage Report

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Increment coverage report
Complete coverage report

Category	Coverage
Function Coverage	51.76% (17135/33105)
Line Coverage	37.23% (156102/419266)
Region Coverage	31.92% (119033/372950)
Branch Coverage	33.22% (52312/157459)

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