branch-3.0: [chore](tablet) ignore_load_tablet_failure default to be true #55109

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Cherry-picked from #55109

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run buildall

[doris-robot]

TPC-H: Total hot run time: 40464 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpch-tools
Tpch sf100 test result on commit 311ee05ec388c803d29d46023df276a22691c480, data reload: false

------ Round 1 ----------------------------------
q1	17587	6744	6712	6712
q2	2036	203	176	176
q3	10495	1135	1100	1100
q4	10233	733	753	733
q5	7753	2847	2833	2833
q6	209	133	135	133
q7	985	636	620	620
q8	9393	1979	2008	1979
q9	6623	6383	6407	6383
q10	7013	2255	2290	2255
q11	472	268	272	268
q12	403	212	220	212
q13	17767	3021	2999	2999
q14	236	206	210	206
q15	506	463	462	462
q16	488	370	368	368
q17	998	606	655	606
q18	7457	6806	6880	6806
q19	1402	1088	1058	1058
q20	474	208	206	206
q21	3878	3359	3419	3359
q22	1114	990	1010	990
Total cold run time: 107522 ms
Total hot run time: 40464 ms

----- Round 2, with runtime_filter_mode=off -----
q1	6549	6572	6535	6535
q2	338	238	239	238
q3	2944	2992	2928	2928
q4	2054	1854	1810	1810
q5	5800	5774	5727	5727
q6	217	128	131	128
q7	2227	1820	1791	1791
q8	3398	3613	3520	3520
q9	8857	8927	8856	8856
q10	3583	3570	3549	3549
q11	593	506	504	504
q12	815	604	646	604
q13	10151	3182	3232	3182
q14	323	267	259	259
q15	505	474	466	466
q16	508	458	449	449
q17	1879	1659	1624	1624
q18	8351	7684	7726	7684
q19	1674	1623	1540	1540
q20	2120	1888	1883	1883
q21	5361	5188	5095	5095
q22	1165	1018	1032	1018
Total cold run time: 69412 ms
Total hot run time: 59390 ms

[doris-robot]

TPC-DS: Total hot run time: 192937 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpcds-tools
TPC-DS sf100 test result on commit 311ee05ec388c803d29d46023df276a22691c480, data reload: false

query1	962	416	404	404
query2	6260	1926	1924	1924
query3	8684	213	206	206
query4	33386	23567	23471	23471
query5	3346	472	468	468
query6	283	189	183	183
query7	4196	321	325	321
query8	295	228	221	221
query9	9642	2592	2614	2592
query10	472	273	276	273
query11	18134	15234	15275	15234
query12	158	103	102	102
query13	1566	426	443	426
query14	8493	7533	7158	7158
query15	254	174	176	174
query16	8042	468	504	468
query17	1625	641	599	599
query18	2148	356	332	332
query19	284	166	169	166
query20	129	119	112	112
query21	209	117	110	110
query22	4720	4457	4591	4457
query23	35002	34230	33981	33981
query24	11827	2948	2933	2933
query25	703	424	421	421
query26	1943	176	173	173
query27	3000	356	355	355
query28	7762	2208	2188	2188
query29	1063	461	479	461
query30	277	171	175	171
query31	1051	829	850	829
query32	99	53	59	53
query33	784	307	312	307
query34	1302	500	525	500
query35	874	750	721	721
query36	1120	943	950	943
query37	278	71	68	68
query38	4125	3985	3981	3981
query39	1532	1457	1479	1457
query40	249	109	103	103
query41	52	50	49	49
query42	119	102	98	98
query43	525	492	483	483
query44	1264	822	817	817
query45	196	171	177	171
query46	1154	743	718	718
query47	2051	1918	1966	1918
query48	471	393	392	392
query49	1202	402	406	402
query50	829	427	422	422
query51	7520	7265	7180	7180
query52	106	91	93	91
query53	255	188	189	188
query54	1307	482	481	481
query55	83	80	82	80
query56	273	250	254	250
query57	1339	1242	1201	1201
query58	226	210	210	210
query59	3184	3089	2996	2996
query60	271	253	259	253
query61	108	107	109	107
query62	854	679	686	679
query63	227	194	186	186
query64	4889	645	623	623
query65	3313	3213	3191	3191
query66	1396	292	294	292
query67	15880	15911	15804	15804
query68	5536	575	586	575
query69	450	266	264	264
query70	1167	1117	1111	1111
query71	336	254	262	254
query72	6228	3868	3962	3868
query73	738	352	351	351
query74	10390	9270	9220	9220
query75	3382	2667	2654	2654
query76	3310	1051	1067	1051
query77	409	287	277	277
query78	10523	9552	9564	9552
query79	1320	591	608	591
query80	977	432	453	432
query81	540	220	223	220
query82	637	92	89	89
query83	230	147	149	147
query84	236	82	78	78
query85	1405	290	293	290
query86	393	303	285	285
query87	4423	4250	4210	4210
query88	3354	2462	2397	2397
query89	410	291	294	291
query90	2088	187	188	187
query91	181	156	154	154
query92	61	50	51	50
query93	1136	548	553	548
query94	1066	284	308	284
query95	371	262	261	261
query96	616	284	294	284
query97	3309	3169	3155	3155
query98	212	209	200	200
query99	1502	1293	1279	1279
Total cold run time: 302309 ms
Total hot run time: 192937 ms

[doris-robot]

ClickBench: Total hot run time: 30.53 s

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/clickbench-tools
ClickBench test result on commit 311ee05ec388c803d29d46023df276a22691c480, data reload: false

query1	0.04	0.03	0.02
query2	0.07	0.03	0.03
query3	0.23	0.06	0.06
query4	1.64	0.11	0.11
query5	0.56	0.51	0.53
query6	1.13	0.74	0.74
query7	0.02	0.02	0.02
query8	0.05	0.04	0.03
query9	0.58	0.50	0.50
query10	0.57	0.55	0.56
query11	0.15	0.11	0.11
query12	0.14	0.10	0.11
query13	0.60	0.59	0.60
query14	0.78	0.80	0.80
query15	0.86	0.83	0.83
query16	0.42	0.41	0.39
query17	1.04	1.05	1.09
query18	0.24	0.22	0.23
query19	2.00	1.90	1.90
query20	0.02	0.01	0.02
query21	15.38	0.64	0.64
query22	2.61	1.86	2.03
query23	17.05	0.94	0.85
query24	3.26	0.96	1.27
query25	0.27	0.14	0.05
query26	0.40	0.13	0.15
query27	0.04	0.05	0.04
query28	10.00	0.56	0.45
query29	12.60	3.22	3.20
query30	0.26	0.06	0.06
query31	2.84	0.40	0.39
query32	3.22	0.47	0.46
query33	2.96	3.00	3.03
query34	17.15	4.53	4.52
query35	4.56	4.57	4.65
query36	0.65	0.50	0.49
query37	0.09	0.06	0.06
query38	0.04	0.04	0.03
query39	0.03	0.03	0.02
query40	0.16	0.13	0.12
query41	0.08	0.02	0.03
query42	0.04	0.02	0.02
query43	0.04	0.02	0.02
Total cold run time: 104.87 s
Total hot run time: 30.53 s

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Category	Coverage
Function Coverage	42.09% (11244/26713)
Line Coverage	32.61% (96233/295143)
Region Coverage	30.55% (55267/180919)
Branch Coverage	26.87% (27356/101806)

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PR approved by at least one committer and no changes requested.

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PR approved by anyone and no changes requested.