[opt](txn lazy commit) Make convert tmp rowsets batch more adaptive (#55035)

[swjtu-zhanglei]

• default txn_lazy_max_rowsets_per_batch is 1000, when RowsetMetaCloudPB size exceeds 10MB / 1000, fdb will refuse kv_txn, so we calculate batch size dynamically

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pick #55035

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