fix(lambda-nodejs): pnpm no longer supports nodejs14.x (#24821)

Doing a couple of things
- Update `Dockerfile` image to nodejs18
- Pin pnpm to 8.0.0 (latest version)
- Add some error handling to the test to better catch this error in the future

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*By submitting this pull request, I confirm that my contribution is made under the terms of the Apache-2.0 license*

(cherry picked from commit b1c9ab2)

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