feat: add custom flag parser for extensions (backport #4269)

[mergify]

close ignite/apps#116

Description

This PR creates a simple flag parser, so we don't need to depend on another library to parse a few objects. It also solves the issue of missing default values in the flags.

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This is an automatic backport of pull request #4269 done by Mergify.

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Changes to be committed:
	modified:   changelog.md
	new file:   ignite/services/plugin/flag.go
	new file:   ignite/services/plugin/flag_test.go
	modified:   integration/plugin/testdata/example-plugin/main.go

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	both modified:   ignite/cmd/plugin_test.go

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