DDL job not advancing after TiDB upgrade

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Bug Report

Please answer these questions before submitting your issue. Thanks!

1. Minimal reproduce step (Required)

1. deploy a cluster
2. using sysbench add some data and create index for the table
3. upgrade cluster set tidb with --with-mock-upgrade
4. check the ddl jobs

2. What did you expect to see? (Required)

all ddl jobs will resume and running well

3. What did you see instead (Required)

a ddl job can not advance

4. What is your TiDB version? (Required)

MySQL [(none)]> select tidb_version();
+--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------+
| tidb_version()                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               |
+--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------+
| Release Version: v7.1.0-upgrade
Edition: Community
Git Commit Hash: 63d719517832dc84cc30b393b6c96a3767c4bead
Git Branch: heads/refs/tags/v7.1.0-upgrade
UTC Build Time: 2023-05-12 11:10:27
GoVersion: go1.20.3
Race Enabled: false
TiKV Min Version: 6.2.0-alpha
Check Table Before Drop: false