*: fix cte miss cleaning spilled-disk file (#44501)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #44501

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #44477

Problem Summary:
Close record set for select stmt and insert/update stmt is in different code path.
Miss calling resetCTEStorage for insert/update stmt, whose recordSet is nil.

What is changed and how it works?

1. call resetCTEStorage() in handleNoDelay(), this will cover insert/update.. DML stmt.
2. call resetCTEStorage() in (a *ExecStmt) CloseRecordSet`, this will cover select stmt. Also for prepare/execute/plan cache/select for update.

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Integration test
• Manual test (add detailed scripts or steps below)
• No code

Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

• Affects user behaviors
• Contains syntax changes
• Contains variable changes
• Contains experimental features
• Changes MySQL compatibility

Release note

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/test mysql-test

[guo-shaoge]

/test unit-test

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Timeline:

• 2023-06-16 02:22:27.319701691 +0000 UTC m=+311543.734305765: ☑️ agreed by wshwsh12.
• 2023-06-16 03:57:38.994311972 +0000 UTC m=+317255.408916051: ☑️ agreed by XuHuaiyu.