ddl: table meta should store column without db and table name (#50978)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #50978

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #50972

What changed and how does it work?

When storing an expression in table meta, the column name should be restored without db and table name to make sure the meta is still valid after renaming a table.

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Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

• Affects user behaviors
• Contains syntax changes
• Contains variable changes
• Contains experimental features
• Changes MySQL compatibility

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fix a issue that some DDL will hang in some some cases.

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