server: start to listen after init stats complete (#51472)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #51472

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #51473

Problem Summary:

What changed and how does it work?

Now the checkpoint of force-init-stats is before the TCP accept handler. it should be before establishing the TCP listener.

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Integration test
• Manual test (add detailed scripts or steps below)

Add the sleep into the checkpoint of force-init-stats. then we cannot connect it.

we cannot add it to UT. because it takes too much time for UT to sleep duration running.

• No need to test

  • I checked and no code files have been changed.

Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

• Affects user behaviors
• Contains syntax changes
• Contains variable changes
• Contains experimental features
• Changes MySQL compatibility

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[fixdb]

+1

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Timeline:

• 2024-03-06 03:48:20.366494684 +0000 UTC m=+225327.388741072: ☑️ agreed by fixdb.
• 2024-03-06 06:15:12.494399733 +0000 UTC m=+234139.516646120: ☑️ agreed by hawkingrei.

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