fix a panic issue in parallel agg when exception is thrown (#5433)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #5433

Signed-off-by: gengliqi gengliqiii@gmail.com

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #5356

Problem Summary:
See #5356.

What is changed and how it works?

See #5356 (comment).
Although the panic doesn't happen by lucky coincidence due to #5274, this PR is still needed for previous branches.
It's easier to pick this PR to other branches than #5274.

The ParallelAggregatingBlockInputStream should be canceled when its processors meet an exception.
Otherwise, the aggregation of non-joined data will still process which leads to panic like #5356 shows.

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Integration test
• Manual test (add detailed scripts or steps below)
• No code

Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

• Affects user behaviors
• Contains syntax changes
• Contains variable changes
• Contains experimental features
• Changes MySQL compatibility

Release note

Fix a panic issue in parallel aggregation when an exception is thrown.

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