p2p(ticdc): use a larger max receive message size (#8005)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #8005

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #8004

What is changed and how it works?

Use a larger max receive message size to address ResourceExhausted issue.

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Manual test
  Setup a changefeed that replicate 72k tables.

Questions

Will it cause performance regression or break compatibility?

No.

Do you need to update user documentation, design documentation or monitoring documentation?

No.

Release note

Fix an issue that checkpoint can not advance when replicating many tables.

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