[store] bump CommitKVStoreCache limit and switch to 2Q from arc (#152)

## Describe your changes and provide context
IRRC we had discussions around bumping the limit for the inter-block
cache since 1k is pretty little for our volume of TXs per block. Im
setting it to 100k to be the same as the BoundedCacheKv store

While I was investigating the race condition issue in the LRU cache, I
saw that several repos brought up concerns around using ArcCache in
their code as it's been patented by IBM (and later sold to Intel)

hashicorp/golang-lru#31 
hashicorp/golang-lru#73 

ipfs/kubo#6590
ipfs/go-ipfs-blockstore#20

Postgres and IPFS replaced it with 2Q, which based on the whitepaper
should have the same performance as ARC.
## Testing performed to validate your change
Deployed a LT cluster with these changes and saw no impact to consensus
and the performance (with LT clients running) is similar

![image](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/18161326/216499319-be5ae693-242f-453c-8073-414bf5f810bd.png)

go.mod

@@ -144,7 +144,7 @@ replace (
 	github.com/gin-gonic/gin => github.com/gin-gonic/gin v1.7.0
 	github.com/gogo/protobuf => github.com/regen-network/protobuf v1.3.3-alpha.regen.1
 
-	github.com/tendermint/tendermint => github.com/sei-protocol/sei-tendermint v0.1.147
+	github.com/tendermint/tendermint => github.com/sei-protocol/sei-tendermint v0.1.162
 
 	// latest grpc doesn't work with with our modified proto compiler, so we need to enforce
 	// the following version across all dependencies.

go.sum

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store/cache/cache.go

@@ -16,7 +16,7 @@ var (
 
 	// DefaultCommitKVStoreCacheSize defines the persistent ARC cache size for a
 	// CommitKVStoreCache.
-	DefaultCommitKVStoreCacheSize uint = 1000
+	DefaultCommitKVStoreCacheSize uint = 100000
 )
 
 type (
@@ -28,7 +28,7 @@ type (
 	// CommitKVStore and below is completely irrelevant to this layer.
 	CommitKVStoreCache struct {
 		types.CommitKVStore
-		cache       *lru.ARCCache
+		cache       *lru.TwoQueueCache
 		cacheKVSize int
 
 		// the same CommitKVStoreCache may be accessed concurrently by multiple
@@ -48,7 +48,7 @@ type (
 )
 
 func NewCommitKVStoreCache(store types.CommitKVStore, size uint, cacheKVSize int) *CommitKVStoreCache {
-	cache, err := lru.NewARC(int(size))
+	cache, err := lru.New2Q(int(size))
 	if err != nil {
 		panic(fmt.Errorf("failed to create KVStore cache: %s", err))
 	}