Fixes crashes when downloading an item (repro'd with a .crx)

[mkarolin]

Fixes crashes when downloading an item due to using BraveDownloadItemView after it is deleted by the base class on download completion.

Fixes brave/brave-browser#1628

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[bbondy]

master: 7e4770a
0.57.x: c3b5264
0.56.x: daf9c85
0.55.x: cf050f4